WHAT'S KEEPING US FROM GODS PROMISE??

We often ask, why me? What is keeping me from living the best life, the life God intended for me. Ladies, we are in the shape we are in today because of the choices we've made. Marriages are in the shape they are in because of choices that were made. The relationship with our spouse and our children is in the shape that it is in because of the choices we've made. We are in financial bondage today because of the choices we've made. God's Word would set us free if we would read it, but we're in bondage and we're trapped under all of our stuff and we feel like we're slaves to our debt and to a relationship because we have not listened to the Word of God. Until you listen to the Word of God, you will make the wrong choices, go down the wrong road; lose your family, lose your home, lose your investments and businesses, because God has a way to live life. You and I cannot live life on our terms and ask God to bless us. The reason that many people today are in bondage, in frustration, and in defeat is because you don't REALLY want to know what God says and you dnt want to live life God's way. If any man is in Christ he is a new creation (creature), old things have passed away. All things (not some) have become new. Ladies, it's time to take life to a new level by following the will of God for our lives.

"HIS DAUGHTER"

There is such a great reward in fasting. The past few weeks have been a time that I spent a lot of time in prayer and meaningful communication with the Lord. In a few days "His Daughter" will resume. As always I am looking forward to great dialogue on how we can be exactly what God intended. Remember, we are royalty, we are "His Daughter":)

"THE LIFE OF THE OTHER WOMAN" PARTII

Many people think that subjects like infidelity shouldn't be discussed in a christian forum. Infidelity has been a problem that has plagued relationships and were mentioned even in the bible.
The life of the "other woman" is complex because, she is either the other woman by choice or like the "main" woman she has no idea she isn't the only one.
My question to women who emailed me and said that they had no problem being the other woman was, why? What would make you be with a man that you know is involved with someone else? 3 out of the 5 women who responded said that they believed the man would eventually leave the woman he was currently with. They stated that the hardest part of the relationship was on special occasions when the man was with his family. The thing I found most remarkable was their loyalty to the relationship. All of these women said they were exclusively dating these men and that the men wouldn't tolerate them being with someone else. Some of these relationships even went as far as creating children. Which brings a whole other dynamic to the situation. This has become  the norm in relationships across the world. Women are settling for a part time relationship with a man that they love. Just for the sake of not being alone. Other women say they don't mind the man being in  relationship because they don't want him exclusively and they are seeing other people as well. They meet up for casual encounters and don't mind if several days, weeks, or months go by without hearing from the man. They cover for the man and basically could care less about the man having a woman or family at home.
Then there's the woman who thinks that she in a relationship with a man just to find out he is in a relationship with another woman. This woman's life falls apart just like the "main woman" but, sadly, these women more often than not fight with each other to see who will win the man. What do you think can be done to stop the madness. Women, we should care more about one another than to allow ourselves to accept this type of behavior. We have to raise our standards. Okay, ladies I need your input; how do you feel about the life of the other woman? What do you think women should do when they find themselves in situations like this? Why would a woman choose to be with a man knowing he has someone else. Join in, someone reading this is in this situation and maybe a word from one of you will help her make a decision to change her life. After all, that's what this blog is about, uplifting one another.

WHO IS "THE OTHER WOMAN" PART I

Ladies, Ladies, Ladies, today we are going to confront a taboo subject, the "other woman". In one way or another we have all come in contact with this woman, either you have been the other woman, you have been hurt by the other woman, or perhaps just a friend of a woman who was the other woman but, undoubtedly you can put a face to this name. Statistics show that in some major cities the man to woman ratio is 10:1 so does that mean that women should settle for a situation where they share a man with another woman or family? I've spoken with some self proclaimed "Clean up" women, these women say that they are willing to do things that the main woman or wife won't do. They say that they provide the man with a safe haven that keeps him satisfied enough to continue to go home. What do you think?  The "clean up" woman says she doesn't want to keep your man, she just shares him every so often, sometimes for things that he provides for her and other times because its a mutual thing and there are no strings attached. Now let's move on to the "other woman". This woman may or may not know about you. What often happens in these situations is that a serious relationship formed and this woman will also look at you as the other woman, when she finds out about you. Most men don't realize how serious it is to have more than one woman thriving off of relationships with them and before they know it, things have spiraled out of control and there are people left with broken hearts. If a man is married, whether separated or with his wife shouldn't he be off limits? Some women don't think so, they believe that if the man "says" he is no longer with his wife then he is free game. What that should say to a woman using good judgement is that her relationship can only go so far, if he isNOT divorced, he can't marry you which means your situation with this man is at best temporary. Think about that for a moment, temporary. If you sell yourself short be willing to take the short ride. What happens is women will initially accept that the man is separated but, once her feelings are involved look out, she wants what every other woman wants, to have him to herself. Ladies, let's be realistic if a man wants to be with you, you won't have to force him to divorce or break up with someone else. What do you think women should do when dealing with "the other woman"? What would cause you to ok with being the other woman? You can comment below or send me a message @ladymelissaewest@yahoo.com. I would love to hear your thoughts on how to  handle the "other woman" or what it's like being the other woman. Join me tomorrow as we continue with Part II "The Life of the Other Woman".

"THE REAL DEAL ABOUT LIFE"

Have you ever really taken the time to think about what life is? The Bible states that life is but, a vapor. How serious do we take living. Do you waste time arguing about things that don't matter? Do you spend time in relationships that you know aren't headed anywhere? It is such a blessing to wake up each day in good health and in the right state of mind. Do you have dreams that seem out of reach, why not go for it? We were all born with everything we need to be the best we can be and have the ULTIMATE life that God purposed just for you. What if you were given a date of death when you were born? What would you do different? Today I challenge you to live your life, live hard. Enjoy your life. Celebrate your life because when it's all said and done how your life ends up is determined by how you choose to live it!

"HAPPY NEW YEAR"

Happy New Year, everyone!! As we take steps into the 1st few days of 2012, let's take a moment to really look at what we can do to get the most out of this year. There are so many things that we are going to launch through "His Daughter" in 2012 and I want you all to be a part of it. From relationship dialogue to fitness tips all topped with the word of God, we are going to take being a daughter of God to a new level. We are going to share our disppointments and celebrate our triumphs. Together we are going to take our rightful place in the home, workplace, and our communities. I will be available for speaking engagements. I will be working to complete my 1st book, and I am always available for prayer through my email address or my facebook page. It is a privilege for me to have dynamic women share their lives with me and come to this blog for encouragement. It is a great feeling to know that we are going to experience all of the honor that comes with being who God intended for us to be, ROYALTY. Join me as we endeavor to be the best we can be for the Kingdom of God.