WHO IS "THE OTHER WOMAN" PART I

Ladies, Ladies, Ladies, today we are going to confront a taboo subject, the "other woman". In one way or another we have all come in contact with this woman, either you have been the other woman, you have been hurt by the other woman, or perhaps just a friend of a woman who was the other woman but, undoubtedly you can put a face to this name. Statistics show that in some major cities the man to woman ratio is 10:1 so does that mean that women should settle for a situation where they share a man with another woman or family? I've spoken with some self proclaimed "Clean up" women, these women say that they are willing to do things that the main woman or wife won't do. They say that they provide the man with a safe haven that keeps him satisfied enough to continue to go home. What do you think?  The "clean up" woman says she doesn't want to keep your man, she just shares him every so often, sometimes for things that he provides for her and other times because its a mutual thing and there are no strings attached. Now let's move on to the "other woman". This woman may or may not know about you. What often happens in these situations is that a serious relationship formed and this woman will also look at you as the other woman, when she finds out about you. Most men don't realize how serious it is to have more than one woman thriving off of relationships with them and before they know it, things have spiraled out of control and there are people left with broken hearts. If a man is married, whether separated or with his wife shouldn't he be off limits? Some women don't think so, they believe that if the man "says" he is no longer with his wife then he is free game. What that should say to a woman using good judgement is that her relationship can only go so far, if he isNOT divorced, he can't marry you which means your situation with this man is at best temporary. Think about that for a moment, temporary. If you sell yourself short be willing to take the short ride. What happens is women will initially accept that the man is separated but, once her feelings are involved look out, she wants what every other woman wants, to have him to herself. Ladies, let's be realistic if a man wants to be with you, you won't have to force him to divorce or break up with someone else. What do you think women should do when dealing with "the other woman"? What would cause you to ok with being the other woman? You can comment below or send me a message @ladymelissaewest@yahoo.com. I would love to hear your thoughts on how to  handle the "other woman" or what it's like being the other woman. Join me tomorrow as we continue with Part II "The Life of the Other Woman".