Thursday, March 14, 2013

"In Your Face"

Women hating on women, although this may be a taboo subject it must be addressed. Hating between women doesn't just plague women who aren't fond of one another but, it is also common now a day among friends. It happens in the lives of women from all walks of life and it is a debilitating situation that can keep women from progressing into the people that they were intended to be. It is common to see women on television fighting with one another and keeping continuous drama stemming from personal relationships and extending into business relationships. It is sad to say that when some women see another woman doing well, they are quick to search to find something wrong with her. Ladies, what is wrong with genuinely being happy for a successful person whether a man or a woman? The road to success is already rocky enough for someone trying to excel in life and we as women just add to the problem when we don't support one another. Whether this means patronizing someones business, referring their business, or lending them a hand in your area of  expertise. When did women stop complimenting one another? When did women become enemies with one another just because of what one has? Contrary to popular belief hating is overrated. When I see a successful woman to me it's like looking in a mirror, where there are dark places in my life, it is like a glimmer of hope. What could be better than to see a woman defying the odds and doing what you would like to do with yourself? It is my hope that as my blog continues we actually grasp the concept that we are all God's daughters and what more does a father want for his daughter than to see her happy and living a successful, fulfilled life. My blog is a community for women to learn to heal, to learn to be accepting, to learn to appreciate, and to learn to grow. "His Daughter" is the beginning of a Sisterhood. Though it may be hard, we will learn to be more accepting of others by truly becoming more accepting of ourselves, flaws and all. From day to day, blog to blog we will dispel the hate and excel in love. There is strength in numbers and it starts with each individual woman reading my blog. That's right you, complimenting yourself grants you the permission to compliment another woman. Ladies, its time for us to succeed with force one business at a time, making a change within ourselves as a True Daughter of God.


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